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My mother-in-law turned my diploma right into a joke

Expensive Amy: I not too long ago graduated with my grasp’s.

My mom and mother-in-law flew individually to my commencement from the opposite facet of the nation.

I’m grateful they each got here, however whereas my MIL was right here she made repeated feedback that I felt put down my diploma.

She mentioned that my commencement ceremony was actually for my husband as a result of he supported me by college. Whereas he did work full time to help us, I additionally labored whereas attending college full time.

She gave him a commencement present, in addition to a shirt that mentioned, “I survived my spouse’s graduate diploma.”

I used to be shocked and harm by this, and she or he stored encouraging him to put on it on my precise commencement day.

I discovered the shirt offensive as a result of it trivialized my accomplishment into one thing that was apparently extraordinarily tough for him.

After the actual fact, I informed my husband (by tears) how I felt. He informed me that whereas he might see my level, it was only a joke.

For the rest of the go to, she continued to ask him to put on the shirt, however he continued to dodge the query and never put on it as a result of he knew it made me upset.

I attempted to smile and bear it however I used to be deeply harm and felt mocked.

She has had a sample of creating little adverse feedback about my diploma and future job.

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