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Momzilla threatens to stomp on the marriage

Pricey Amy: My daughter is engaged to an ideal man. She is ending school and heading to grad college, so the marriage is probably going 18 months away.

I just like the groom, however he has some sturdy opinions in regards to the marriage ceremony!

He needs a small marriage ceremony with solely clergy, the couple and oldsters current.

He says he organized his brother’s marriage ceremony by himself, and it was fantastic (why was the bride’s household not concerned?).

Additionally, he needs to have the marriage in his dwelling state, within the Midwest. (We stay within the West.)

When my daughter has famous that the bride and her household “historically” arrange the marriage, his response is: “But it surely’s my marriage ceremony, too!”

After I point out hiring a marriage planner, he disagrees (wait, who’s paying for this?).

I might plan the marriage myself, however I dread the hours on-line, phoning, or what number of airplane journeys this can take! (Nonetheless, I’m prepared to pattern the champagne regionally.)

My compromise is a marriage out West, with a second reception in his hometown along with his household or him in cost.

He’s OK with this, however he nonetheless insists the Western marriage ceremony needs to be solely 5 folks. This negates the attendance of household on either side.

Should I turn out to be Momzilla, Destroyer of Weddings, or is there a option to transfer ahead with concessions and compromises on either side?

What if she decides to depart him in cost? Wouldn’t it mirror something of our household?

Extra worrisome, if this an instance of decision-making between them, ought to I like to recommend pre-marriage counseling?


Pricey MOB: I agree with you that there’s bother on the horizon, and since you’re the one that has introduced a laundry record of issues, I’d begin with you.

You dangle the specter of turning into a Momzilla, Destroyer of Weddings, however I’d say you’re already stomping over this celebration, spewing your mighty tongues of fireplace.

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